I learned how we can be happy this week! 🙂 And it’s so cool because everyone can learn how to be happy regardless of the circumstances that they are in or burdens that they may be carrying!
I was reading in the ensign this past week and there is an awesome article about how the Book of Mormon teaches us the pattern by which we can follow and live happy lives! So all you have to do is read this awesome, true, and inspired book that was given to us from a loving Father in Heaven. It contains direct specifically for each and everyone of us and it was written for our day!
I’ve heard this my whole life. And it’s amazing every time I rediscover how happy the Book of Mormon can really make me. In the article, President Eyring points out two short chapters from the Book of Mormon that talk about happy people and how they became so happy!
1st: 2 Nephi 5 (So yes, there is important stuff in the book of 2 nephi. No you cant just skip over it…)
2 nephi 5: 27 And it came to pass that we lived after the manner of happiness.
Maintain uplifting associations: Nephi was surronded by those who had similar values as him. This doesnt mean that we avoid associations with nonmembers…But don’t put yourself in situations that are against you moral values. Surround yourself with happy people who will uplift you and make you feel good. There are people that are outside of the church that still have good values! So those associations can extend outside of members of the church.
2 nephi 5: 6 Wherefore, it came to pass that I, Nephi, did take my family, and also Zoram and his family, and Sam, mine elder brother and his family, and Jacob and Joseph, my younger brethren, and also my sisters, and all those who would go with me. And all those who would go with me were those who believed in the warnings and the revelations of God; wherefore, they did hearken unto my words.
Align actions with beliefs:
If you aren’t living something that you believe in, chances are that youre going to frustrate yourself. In the words of Ghandi “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony”. But don’t get frustrated if you aren’t perfect! Repentance is essential. If you aren’t living the way that you believe, repent! Make changes step by step until you achieve your desires!
2 nephi 5: 10 And we did observe to keep the judgments, and the statutes, and the commandments of the Lord in all things, according to the law of Moses.
Accomplish hard work:
The reasons we are here on Earth are to receive a body, learn, grow, and gain experiences. Ultimately, we are trying to become more like Jesus Christ. Now believe it or not, that takes some hard work. I’m pretty far off of being perfect. But as we work hard and accomplish things that are hard to do, we feel happy and joyful.
2 nephi 5: 11 And the Lord was with us; and we did prosper exceedingly; for we did sow seed, and we did reap again in abundance. And we began to raise flocks, and herds, and animals of every kind.
2 nephi 5: 15 And I did teach my people to build buildings, and to work in all manner of wood, and of iron, and of copper, and of brass, and of steel, and of gold, and of silver, and of precious ores, which were in great abundance.
Focus on the temple:
Temple blessings and being happy are pretty much connected. They remind of our Heavenly Fathers love and help us understand why we are here on Earth. As we focus on the temple, we will feel closer to him.
2 nephi 5: 16 And I, Nephi, did build a temple; and I did construct it after the manner of the temple of Solomon save it were not built of so many precious things; for they were not to be found upon the land, wherefore, it could not be built like unto Solomon’s temple. But the manner of the construction was like unto the temple of Solomon; and the workmanship thereof was exceedingly fine.
2nd: 4 Nephi 1
4 Nephi 1:16 And there were no envyings, nor strifes, nor tumults, nor whoredoms, nor lyings, nor murders, nor any manner of lasciviousness; and surely there could not be a happier people among all the people who had been created by the hand of God.
Share what you have with others: Wouldn’t it be amazing to live in a world where all things were common among us? Where everyone could partake of the heavenly gifts that we have all been given! The Lord himself has commanded us to care for those that are in need. Joy and happiness come to us as we fulfill that commandment.
4 Nephi 1: 3 And they had all things common among them; therefore there were not rich and poor, bond and free, but they were all made free, and partakers of the heavenly gift.
Belong to a family: Families bring us happiness!:) What more can be said! I love my family and they make me happier than anyone else! God gave us families so that we could be happy!:)
4 Nephi 1: 11 And they were married, and given in marriage, and were blessed according to the multitude of the promises which the Lord had made unto them.
Be a peacemaker: Youll see a reoccurring theme in the scriptures below.. There was no contention among them! Striving to be a peacemaker will bring us so much happiness. Stop waiting for others to give you what you think you deserve and give to others what you think you deserve. That will bring peace and that will bring happiness. Waiting on others to be peacemakers will only bring frustration. It derives from feeling like we are the center of the world and everyone should be trying to make us happy when in reality, we should be serving and trying to make others happy.
4 Nephi 1: 2 And it came to pass in the thirty and sixth year, the people were all converted unto the Lord, upon all the face of the land, both Nephites and Lamanites, and there were no contentions and disputations among them, and every man did deal justly one with another.
4 Nephi 1: 13 And it came to pass that there was no contention among all the people, in all the land; but there were mighty miracles wrought among the disciples of Jesus.
4 Nephi 1:15 And it came to pass that there was no contention in the land, because of the love of God which did dwell in the hearts of the people.
4 Nephi 1: 18 And how blessed were they! For the Lord did bless them in all their doings; yea, even they were blessed and prospered until an hundred and ten years had passed away; and the first generation from Christ had passed away, and there was no contention in all the land.
All of the things above things are true because they just are… haha no but really. Being on a mission these are all things that we work our hardest to do. And it really does bring happiness that isn’t of this world. It’s a happiness that dwells with us despite our circumstances. Despite sadness, frustration, depression and all the other crazy emotions that you feel during life. So read the Book of Mormon and do these things!
We also had transfers this week! I’m with Elder Dunn now! Im super excited! We are going to get lots of work “dunn” and have lots of fun doing it!
Thanks for all that yall do! Love ya! Have a great week!
Elder Fischer
1. Elder Dunn and I
2. Juicing it up
3. Just Chillin